What would it take to just admit it? To stop struggling and pretending that you’re good enough and be honest with yourself to say you’re not.
Of course many of us were told it when we were little and it crushed our spirit and told us that we couldn’t succeed. But supposing we took it at face value and said to ourselves, “I’m not good enough yet, but I will be.”
It’s so liberating.
You don’t need to pretend to be someone you’re not. You’re free to learn whatever you need to become good enough for whatever you want. No one can stop you any more. You just agree with them and carry on until you reach “good enough” for you.